I'm pleased to tell you that Whitesnake has asked for my phone number. Which, yes, is exciting. Of course I like to speak to guys before I meet them in person to learn a little bit more about them and make sure they don't sound like Mickey Mouse. But there's something scary about that first phone call. It's like, hey, I know what you look like and have emailed with you for a few days now, and have a small schoolgirl crush on you, but now we're really interacting. I can't hide behind my big, safe computer monitor.
I guess if it goes really bad I can just hang up on him. Like the time I called the man of my 5th-grade-dreams and talked to him for 20 minutes but refused to tell him who I was, and when he had it narrowed down to me or this brace-face in my grade, I said, "I'll never tell!" and hung up. 5 seconds later he called back and I answered (pre-caller ID) and he said, "I knew it was you!" so I gracefully hung up the phone and never spoke to him again.
Hopefully it goes a little better than that.
1 comment:
Hi- I love your blog! A friend of yours (emily) shared the link with me. Ha, I just joined an online dating site in January and know EXACTLY what you are going through! Literally, everything you say is totally true. I never thought online dating would be so much work. I've been on a few very interesting dates. (ha, my friends love my stories) As far as the guy who talks too much, you should have a back-up plan. I went on a date like that for "research" and I couldn't get out of there soon enough. I had a "work emergency."
Thanks for sharing!
Laura
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